A God centered
view of how to raise a blended family
"This book
is a tremendous tool to have in learning how to tackle virtually any of
a blended family's hurdles using a faith based approach. I highly
recommend it after having been through the class based on the book that
the authors personally teach as well. There truly isn't anything like
it! You will be blessed!" R. Bayliss -- April 12, 2007
Absolute
Necessity if you are a blended family or thinking of remarrying
"This is an awesome source of very true and real issues in a blended
family. Prior to entering into a second marriage, this book is a must
read! It offers solutions to problems and situations that are inevitable
and having that knowledge ahead of time will save a lot of heartache and
tears-" Traci Brunner -- March 27, 2007
Spiritually
Grounded, Practical, and Full of Wisdom
"This book is a sanity saver. I received more revelations and practical
insight from this book than I thought I would. Moe and Paige not only
hear from God but they listen to Him and apply it. They understand the
struggles a blended family faces because they have been there and
succeeded in producing well-balanced children and a healthy marriage.
This is a biblical approach to a blended family, not a worldly view. It
is just what I was looking for. This book is a must for anyone
considering becoming a blended family or for anyone who is already in
one. EXCELLENT!!!" A. Grant -- March 25,
2007
God Breathes
on Blended Families
"This an absolute must for a blended family. The Becnel's wrote an
excellent edition with the help of God and what He says a family should
be as well as a marriage." Juan -- March 8, 2007
Great Book! Highly
recommended...,
"for ANYONE who is in a blended family! My husband and I just finished
the book and the workbook. When we began, we didn't know how this book
might impact our family. WOW! What a difference it has made in our
family! We are very happy with the results and our hope is that other
families will come across this book and be as blessed by it as we have
been!
I noticed that another reviewer knocked the Becnels for not being
"formally trained" and giving what she called "scary advice." I am a
Christian, and I do not believe that one must be formally trained in
order to work through God to help others. This is truly a fantastic
book, as evidenced by the many great reviews it has!
Thank you so much Paige and Moe for writing this book and for the many
blessings your ministry has given my family!" C. Matherne -
April 26, 2007
God Breathes on Blended Families
"I was looking for a "God Inspired" book to help me with the challenges
of a relationship with a man who has children and the future prospect of
marriage which includes living with "the man of my heart" and 2 teenage
sons. I felt this book was written by Christians for Christians but
would be helpful for any couple thinking about marriage and family. My
Sweetheart and I have both read the book and are thankful that there is
help in this area. A MUST for families!!!" St. Simons
Island --- March 16, 2006
If you are
looking for hope, you will find it in the pages of this book and
workbook!,
"We were married in January of 2000, we have 5 children between us. We
heard the statistics, but we thought that things would be different for
us since we were both Christians. We went through all of the premarital
counseling and thought that we knew what we were getting ourselves into.
Within the first year, our marriage was spiraling out of control.
Divorce looked imminent by year two. We went to Christian counseling and
aired all of our junk, but what we needed was what we found in this
book. Through this book, Moe & Paige led us back to the one relationship
that really matters, the one with our Savior. If we don't have that one
relationship right, then we cannot expect that any other relationship
will fair much better. They taught us practical solutions to real life
problems. They reminded us of the things that you forget in the midst of
the storm of life; that prayer is an awesome thing! It is the oil in our
engine and without it our engine will overheat, explode and eventually
die. There was so much good that we received from this book that we
asked our church to teach it as a class. They empowered us to do so and
with the help of Moe and Paige and the God Breathes on Blended Families
book and workbook, other marriages & families have been saved. We know
that God truly does Breathe on Blended Families. If you want to save
your family the pain of another divorce, read this book and apply it to
your life. Trust us it works. Our marriage and family is living
proof." Danette Benavides -- September 4, 2005
The whole kit
and kaboodle!
"We were married in March of 2001 and purchased this book and read it
through, it was very helpful at the time but we were just beginning to
experience our trials through blending our family. We just finished a 10
week course with Moe and Paige and completed the workbook as well as
read the book again and so many things were brought to light. We have
gone through many struggles over the past 3 years and this book has been
a tremendous base to searching for answers to our issues. Thank you Moe
and Paige for a wonderful class, book and workbook. You will be blessed
for listening to God and sharing your life with all of us out there who
are blending our families! God Bless you." Damain & Shelly Kerek --
March 28, 2004
Practical life
application for blended family struggles
"I am a Christian, a husband and a father who with his wife, started on
a blended family journey three years ago. All seven of us expected
family bliss. But then reality hit and the difficulties began in
earnest. With the accompanying workbook we also purchased, this resource
not only illuminates many of the difficulties our family is dealing with
- which helps us realize we are not alone in such struggles - it also
encourages a compassionate heart and true understanding of 'the other
side' of why the struggle is happening in the first place. Using the
Bible as it's basis for responding in grace yet tough love, Paige and
Moe weave a theme of having us remove our own pride from the equation,
and start having us see things the way God sees things, to get things
back on track. While it is true that it will take time to turn things
around for ours or any other blended family, I have for the first time
through this Becnel account, a reason for hope in what I was beginning
to see as a hopeless situation, and a vision of what our family truly
CAN be. If I had to describe this book and workbook, I would describe
them as a message of Hope and a reason to continue on. If you are at
your wits end in frustration with a blended family situation that just
does not seem to be getting better, you need this book!!"
Plexitim -- March 7, 2004
Excellent Book!!!!, April 14,
2005
Reviewer: S. Echols (Atlanta, GA)
This book was such a blessing to me. It addressed many of the ways I
have been feeling in my blended family towards my husband and his
children. It let me know that my feelings were natural but gave me hope
that things can and will change for the better. The Becnel's were very
open & honest in the way they felt and handled their problems.
Paige stated in Chapter
6, "Loving and parenting a child who was not born to you is not a
natural thing." This really helped me and my husband in understanding
that there's a process for us to bond to one another's children, love
didn't come at first sight, so to speak.
She also suggested that
you mentally & emotionally adopt your new children making them a vital
part of your world. My husband even read this book and told me how much
he enjoyed it.
There was a previous
review by a lady who didn't like this book or didn't enjoy all the
scripture references but as Christians the Word should be our manual by
which we live. I was blessed by the scripture references and by the
prayers!!!
If you are on the verge
of leaving your home because of difficulties with your husband/wife or
stepchildren please get this book first and apply the principles
given!!!!
GOD BREATHES ON BLENDED FAMILIES has had a positive impact on parents
and stepparents! Read the following Reviews and Testimonies --- comments
about the book from some of our readers!!!
Practical life application for blended family struggles
I am a Christian, a husband and a father who with his wife, started on a
blended family journey three years ago. All seven of us expected family
bliss. But then reality hit and the difficulties began in earnest. With
the accompanying workbook we also purchased, this resource not only
illuminates many of the difficulties our family is dealing with - which
helps us realize we are not alone in such struggles - it also encourages
a compassionate heart and true understanding of 'the other side' of why
the struggle is happening in the first place. Using the Bible as it's
basis for responding in grace yet tough love, Paige and Moe weave a
theme of having us remove our own pride from the equation, and start
having us see things the way God sees things, to get things back on
track. While it is true that it will take time to turn things around for
ours or any other blended family, I have for the first time through this
Becnel account, a reason for hope in what I was beginning to see as a
hopeless situation, and a vision of what our family truly CAN be. If I
had to describe this book and workbook, I would describe them as a
message of Hope and a reason to continue on. If you are at your wits end
in frustration with a blended family situation that just does not seem
to be getting better, you need this book!!
A reader from Mendham, New Jersey
Interactive Reflection! Time well spent!
I am happy to say that my fiancé & I are recent participants of an
awesome journey of classes led by Moe & Paige Becnel. God Breathes on
Blended Families continues to bless our lives, and the best IS yet to
come! I especially appreciated the workbook that complemented the main
book and classes. It was a great resource for pausing, studying and
learning. I loved the structure that it gave me to FOCUS on the awesome
responsibility at hand! My fiancé and I gained valuable insight about
each other and found out that although some of our ideas were different
. . . with the Lord's help and these valuable tools . . . based on
SCRIPTURAL principles, we too could blend a family and be that light of
hope to our future generation. I am glad to be a part of this. We are so
blessed. Thanks!
Sharla Sossamon & Ray Howe
Praireville, LA
Our journey has just begun...
If you are getting married (or already are) with children this book is a
necessity for your family! My husband and I just completed Blended
Families 10 week course with Moe and Paige using this book and the
workbook and all I can say is WOW! This book will start you on a
lifelong journey wanting to be the best family that you can be. With God
on your side, how could you fail!
God Breathes On Blended Families has brought me closer to my children,
my husband, and especially to God. I've learned how to deal with simple
little things in life that in a new family often seem so hard to over
come. We've just begun our journey as a "blended family," but with what
we've learned reading this book, it has created a solid foundation for
us to build our new family on. I hope and pray that you read this book
in your life. With God and Prayer in your life anything is possible!
Tonya
Baton Rouge, LA
A New Perspective on Being a Blended Family
This book was truly an eye opener. I never thought by reading something
it could so drastically change my perspective of my entire life and
family. This book has helped me gain the strength and guidance to be a
positive impact on helping my family achieve success in "blending". It
is not an alone effort, but this book helped me achieve the mind set,
look deep in my heart and seek out God as number one in our family. With
God in our hearts success is a given, and all the trials and
tribulations ahead of us will merely be God molding our family till it
reaches one heart. Thank you for sharing your life, your lessons, and
your love for God with us.
Tracy Hollier
Prairieville, LA
Tremendous Help!
“This book has been a tremendous blessing for my husband and I. We have
recently married and are facing the challenge of blending a family. Once
we started reading, we could not put the book down. Each page was filled
with such powerful insight of the very struggles we were dealing with.
We appreciated so much the honesty of Moe and Paige Becnel openly
sharing about the good and bad times. We realized we were not alone...
and it gave us hope that God through his mercy and grace will see us
through these difficult times.”
Alicia Ann Landen
Baton Rouge, LA
God Restores Lives
"GOD BREATHES ON BLENDED FAMILIES is a tremendous testimony of the
restoration life that God wants all blended families to live. As God has
done so many times in the Bible, He has turned the Becnels life around
and made their family something beautiful. And what He has done for
them, He will do for all who follow Jesus Christ.”
Sr. Pastor Dino Rizzo, Healing Place Church
Baton Rouge, LA
Finding the Beauty in Blended Families
“It is often very difficult for divorced persons of faith to move on
into a life of fulfillment and grace. Sometimes it's guilt, sometimes
it's regret and sometimes it is resentment that holds us down in the
bonds of living a half-life. GOD BREATHES ON BLENDED FAMILIES by Moe
Becnel & Paige Becnel reminds us that this is not what God wants for our
lives. Christ came so that we may have life, and have it abundantly.
Through Christ, we ALL have forgiveness for not-so-perfect pasts. This
simple reminder echoes through the book in reassurance that the regret
and guilt that restrain us are imposed by the ideals of an imperfect
man... not by a perfect, forgiving and loving God. The tenderness and
truth of the Becnel's story inspires hope and comfort in the family
struggling to form the delicate bonds that truly define a "family". This
book has given me hope for the future, and has highlighted the
forgiveness of my past. The Becnel's have reminded me through their
intimate depiction of poignant moments and proud smiles, that... YES!
God Breathes on Blended Families!”
Nicole Weyant, Editor
www.istepfamily.com
I tell everyone about this book
"I wasn't sure what a blended family was until I read this book. I think
it takes a great deal of courage to get down into the trenches with
people, eyeball to eyeball, and talk about such a painful subject. The
book reminds me of the power of unity and what we can do with God's
help."
Amy Cordon, General Editor,
Vieuxpoint.ctiwebx.com Magazine
It made a real difference in our dreams!
"GOD BREATHES ON BLENDED FAMILIES gave us the hope of successfully
"trying again" when statistics and society says, "don't bother". It made
a real difference in our dreams! Reading this book prior to our marriage
changed our lives tremendously! It warned us of different pit falls and
common traps that many, if not all re-marriages face. Finding out it
could take up to 8-10 years for a family to really blend relieved the
pressure of thinking it should be done within the first year. Not only
this book, but this couple helped take the rubble of two shattered
lives; and with the Grace of God build a strong blended family that will
forever lift the name of Jesus!"
Patrick & Ana Sharp
Gonzales, LA
A Pillar of Hope
"When I read GOD BREATHES ON BLENDED FAMILIES it hit me the importance
of “words” and “hope.” What a tremendous manual and at the same time a
pillar of hope for blended families! Get this book and pass it on!"
Pam Thum, Christian Recording Artist
Testimonies of trail, error and growth
"GOD BREATHES ON BLENDED FAMILIES was very encouraging. When you have
been hurt in a marriage that you planned on being in "for life" and find
yourself single again, it’s very discouraging to think of starting over,
especially if you have children. Through their testimonies of trail,
error and growth, Moe and Paige help you see that this is attainable
with the love of God and His unending grace in our lives."
Mona Tedder
Gonzales, LA
GOD BREATHES ON BLENDED FAMILIES offers hope to families in need of
healing.
"There was a time in my life when I needed sound Godly counsel in the
area of Blended Families. I was amazed that I had so much trouble
finding information in the Christians book stores that could help me
make the transition from being a "step mom" to a MOTHER! Moe and Paige’s
book "GOD BREATHES ON BLENDED FAMILIES" offers hope to families in need
of healing. Better yet, read their book before the downward spiral
begins!! Yes our redeemer lives and he has a purpose and a plan for the
Blended Family too!"
Debra Maffett Host, Harvest TV
WOW! What an encouragement
"WOW! What an encouragement to know that others have braved the storm
and want to tell others that they are not alone. GOD BREATHES ON BLENDED
FAMILIES is a beacon to those who are going through these dark and
confusing times right now! Thanks for your willingness to serve."
Jimmy and Kristi Delaune
Gonzales, LA
Solid Biblical ways
“GOD BREATHES ON BLENDED FAMILIES” was an encouragement and inspiration.
It gave me solid Biblical ways of dealing with blended family issues in
a practical, loving, Christ-centered home. It is a supportive resource
in dealing with the complex dynamics of remarriage with children. Paige
and Moe’s transparency is refreshing.”
Ricki Giersch
Chicago, IL
A blessing for our
family
Though I'm long-since grown-up by now, the serious issues and baggage of
coming of age in a blended family continues to haunt all of us. I bought
copies of this book and brought them home with me for the holidays, and
now family members have been writing to me all month long with ways we
can move forward, together, as a family, in the long and involved
process of mending old wounds. It may be a healing process via Email,
but we're healing nonetheless! Thanks so much, Moe & Paige!
Reviewer: A reader from Atlanta, GA
Insightful and heartwarming
With so many Christian books out there bashing blended families and
offering nothing more than dismal statistics, this book is a blessed
relief! Moe and Paige offer hope and inspiration with their sage advice.
As a blended family member and a Christian, I found it to be a perfect
resource for me. As an author, I can attest to the book's great
organization and eloquence.
Reviewer: A reader from Ontario, Canada
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